Loved and Respected?

This is a very good test to ask your partner to take as well.  You can learn whether or not you are successful at making your partner feel loved and respected; and s/he can learn whether you feel loved and respected. Answers true or false to each of the following statements, depending on whether it is true or mostly true, or false or mostly false.

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	True	False
1. My partner seeks out my opinions.
2. My partner cares about my feelings.
3. I don't feel ignored very often.
4. We touch each other a lot.
5. We listen to each other.
6. We respect each other's ideas.
7. We are affectionate toward each other.
8. I feel that my partner takes good care of me.
9. What I say counts.
10. I am important in our decisions.
11. There's lots of love in our relationship.
12. We are genuinely interested in one another.
13. I just love spending time with my partner.
14. We are very good friends.
15. Even during rough times, we can be empathetic.
16. My partner is considerate of my viewpoint.
17. My partner finds me phvsically attractive.
18. My partner expresses warmth towards me.
19. I feel included in my partner's life.
20. My partner admires me.